Healing After Trauma Starts With Safety and Connection
May 01 2026 16:00
Sunny Wilkins
May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and it is an important time to talk honestly about how trauma can affect emotional well-being after domestic violence or sexual assault. Trauma is not just “stress.” It can change how safe a person feels in their body, in relationships, and in everyday routines.
The National Institute of Mental Health notes that after a traumatic event, people may feel anxious, sad, angry, have trouble sleeping, have trouble concentrating, or find themselves continually thinking about what happened. RAINN also reminds survivors that trauma can affect the brain, body, and emotions in lasting ways, but it does not mean someone is broken.
In Sampson County, U Care has been providing confidential support since 1995, helping survivors in Clinton and surrounding communities take the next step toward safety and stability. Mental Health Awareness Month also matters because it helps reduce stigma and reminds people that mental health is an essential part of overall well-being.
Trauma can show up in ways that are easy to miss at first. Someone may feel jumpy, exhausted, isolated, or unsure who to trust, or they may avoid places or people that remind them of what happened, even when others do not understand why.
In rural communities, these feelings can be even harder to manage because privacy concerns, distance, and limited access to services can all make reaching out feel more complicated. That is why safety matters so much. When a person feels safer, even in small ways, it becomes easier to breathe, think more clearly, and begin moving forward one step at a time.
At U Care, support starts with meeting survivors where they are. U Care offers a 24/7 crisis hotline, emergency shelter in Clinton, safety planning, legal advocacy, court accompaniment and support, peer support groups, and individual support and advocacy for survivors across Sampson County.
Just as important, U Care centers safety and confidentiality, which can make a real difference when someone feels overwhelmed or unsure what to do next. Connection matters too. A caring conversation, a support group, or one-on-one support can help reduce isolation and remind survivors that they do not have to carry everything alone. When a survivor needs services beyond U Care’s non-clinical support, referrals to trusted community partners can help them find additional care that fits their needs.
Healing does not usually happen all at once. It often begins with practical steps: making a safety plan, calling a hotline, leaning on a trusted person, joining a peer support group, or simply learning what options are available. Support can look different for every survivor, and that is okay. What matters most is knowing that help is nearby and that there is no “right” timeline for healing. If you or someone you love needs support, U Care can be reached at 910-596-0931 or the 24/7 toll-free line at 888-229-3320 .
To help sustain these programs for survivors in Sampson County, you can also support U Care through our PayPal donation option and other giving opportunities on our website.
